Monday, October 11, 2010

Talking With Her Hands

Hannah learned the sign for "more" last week, and when she realized that she was physically capable of doing what I was doing, and that doing so meant that she'd get more raisins, her face lit up.  It was a total light bulb moment.  I mean, she gets that nodding and shaking her head indicates yes or no, and she’s learned to wave her hands around like crazy when she’s “all done” being strapped into her booster seat at the table, and she’s even learned to blow lightly when I say that something is hot, but somehow signing “more” seemed more of a turning point in her communication. Maybe because it didn’t come as naturally as the others, because it’s not something we do on a daily basis like nodding yes.  Of course, the most natural sign for her was the one she made up for “give me that” which she does by stretching out her right arm and tilting her head to the right so that her cheek is on her shoulder.  Sometimes she opens and closes her fingers, and she almost always does her Muppet sound: "Meh!"  The longer it takes to figure out what she wants, the angrier and louder "MEH!" gets.  Since the object of “meh” is often a drink (or my cell phone, the TV remote, a hairbrush, a sharp knife, or other items I try not to let her play with), I’ve been working on teaching her the sign for drink.  She's pretty stuck on "more" though and equates it not just with the word “more” but also with the word “sign” so that when I show her the sign for drink and ask her if she can do it, she smiles and signs “more.”  

We've been using the ASLPro.com website for signs. I’ve mentioned this before, but it bears repeating that this site is awesome because it has videos of real people signing which is infinitely easier than trying to decipher a diagram with hands and arrows and lines pointing and going in all directions. 

The Baby Signs book that I read encourages you to let the kid make up his/her own signs and has a dictionary of ideas for these easy made up signs in the back. This makes sense for purposes of communicating with your baby/toddler who may not be able to do some of the complicated motions, but I think signing should be treated like any other language. I mean, I'm not going to encourage Hannah to say dwink instead of drink just because she can't say her "r's". I'll keep saying "drink" because that's correct and when she's capable, she'll say it too, and in the meantime, I know what she’s talking about. So we are starting with ASL signs and however she needs to modify them is obviously fine.  


I've recently been in touch with a representative of Primrose Schools, Kathleen Thomas, who's been involved in teaching young children sign language and co-authored the following article on its benefits:




Early Childhood Education – Acquiring Sign Language

One of the keys to surviving in a tilted economic system in which opportunities to achieve a decent standard of living will be limited is versatility – and the ability to communicate articulately in a variety of ways with the widest possible audience. This includes bilingual ability as well as the ability to communicate in non-verbal ways for the benefit of the disabled – primarily the deaf.

At the same time, a growing shortage of qualified interpreters fluent in American Sign Language has led to more career opportunities – and if current trends continue, it's likely that skilled ASL interpreters will have little problem securing lucrative employment in a society where such a commodity is destined to be in short supply.

Signing Before They Can Speak

A great deal of research has clearly demonstrated that the early years – ages 2 to five – are the best time to educate children in different modes of communication and language. This goes beyond the spoken word (though it is an optimal time for children to learn a second language); many young children have an aptitude for signing as well.

This is not as odd as you may think. As you know, many indigenous peoples around the world, including American Indian nations, have used sign language for centuries to facilitate communication with other tribes with whom they do not share a language. Some paleontologists and anthropologists theorize that Neanderthals – who apparently lacked the vocal mechanism to produce many spoken words – depended a great deal upon hand gestures to communicate.

In fact, recent research suggests that sign language is innate. An article published in the Boulder Daily Camera in 2003 presented strong evidence that babies as young as six months old communicate with their hands:

                                "...by 6 to 7 months, babies can remember a sign. At eight months, children
                                can begin to imitate gestures and sign single words. By 24 months, children
                                can sign compound words and full sentences. They say sign language reduces
                                frustration in young children by giving them a means to express themselves
                                before they know how to talk." (Glarion, 2003)

The author also cites study funded by the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development demonstrating that young children who are taught sign language at an early age actually develop better verbal skills as they get older. The ability to sign has also helped parents in communicating with autistic children; one parent reports that "using sign language allowed her to communicate with her [autistic] son and minimized his frustration...[he now] has an advanced vocabulary and excels in math, spelling and music" (Glarion, 2003).

The Best Time To Start

Not only does early childhood education in signing give pre-verbal youngsters a way to communicate, it can also strengthen the parent-child bond – in addition to giving children a solid foundation for learning a skill that will serve them well in the future. The evidence suggests that the best time to start learning ASL is before a child can even walk – and the implications for facilitating the parent-child relationship are amazing.

Co-written by Emily Patterson and Kathleen Thomas

Emily and Kathleen are Communications Coordinators for the Indiana day care facility, a member of the AdvancED® accredited family of Primrose Schools (located in 16 states throughout the U.S.) and part of the network of day care preschools delivering progressive, early childhood, Balanced Learning® curriculum.

Friday, October 8, 2010

Guess Who Peed in the Potty?!!!!

This kid:

When Hannah was sick, I let her run around diaper-less a few times in an effort to let that rash dry up, but her diarrhea was making quite a mess so I put an end to naked time and stuck the potty in the closet until this morning when I pulled it out on a whim. Hannah was conveniently in between diapers having oh-so-graciously allowed me to remove one very wet dipe but throwing a royal fit when I tried to put on another so I asked her if she wanted to pee-pee in the potty. She nodded her head yes and then tried to sit herself down but this little potty just kept moving away from her, and she kept landing on the floor. I helped her onto the potty and handed her her toothbrush (early use of multi-tasking) and then grabbed my own toothbrush and sat on the closed lid of the toilet.  She stayed put way longer than she ever has before so I was already feeling proud, but when she stood up and I saw a toilet full of pee, I nearly hit the ceiling jumping for joy.  I made quite a production out of it clapping and yay-yay-yaying.  She smiled and laughed and seemed proud of herself, and then she walked over to the toilet and peed a some more.....hehehe.

I haven't written about potty training in a while mostly because there wasn't much to write about. Before we left for Michigan (and after my first blog early potty training) I was making sure that she had at least an hour of naked time most days during which time I focused on drawing her attention to the action of peeing and gave up trying to catch her pee. I read an article about training a cat to sit that said first you praise and reward the cat every time she sits while simultaneously saying the command word (i.e. every time the cat sits, say "sit" and give the cat a treat). (Did I already tell you this story???) Anyway, tacky or not, the pet training advice seemed like good advice so I implemented it into my early potty training and spent a couple months following Hannah around and cheering "pee pee!! yay!" every time she peed on the floor.  I did also sit her on the potty every 25 minutes both to familiarize her with it and also in the hopes of catching something. Then we took about 6 weeks off from all potty training efforts until today. So I guess I combined infant potty training with readiness potty training...Now it's time to buy a real potty that doesn't slide across the floor when she tries to sit down! Any recommendations??

Pee pee in the potty.  Wahooo!!
Remember this outfit?? This is why I buy all her clothes BIG!

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Baltimore's Best Playground

City Paper was right, Stadium Playground is by far the coolest playground in all of Baltimore, probably in all of Maryland.  We drove over after nap time today to see what all the fuss was about.  There's a separate section for littler kids with a play train, a miniature street scape, and lots of cool places to crawl through and explore.  The bigger kid section has a puppet theater, tire swings, a big boat shaped structure with musical pipes, and tons of other cool stuff. The whole thing is made out of that Trex stuff, the ground is that soft recycled rubber stuff, and there are bright paintings everywhere. I snapped a couple of shots with my phone while Hannah was swinging, but of course the phone doesn't do the playground justice.  There are a couple more pics on the website that are much better.



Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Fall Fun Day

We took Hannah to Weber's Farm on Sunday morning to drink apple cider, have a hay ride, and look at ducks and bunnies and goats. You know, fall stuff. There are tons of farms like this in the area that set up family fun areas with hay rides and animals and stuff; my goal is to explore a new on every week...or at least to go to one other one sometime this season.  We started with Weber's because it was familiar to me, having taken the boys I used babysat there back in the day. Familiar was essential due to my lack of sleep the night before and resulting inability to function the next morning. At 3:00 a.m. Hannah sounded a scream that hit my deeply sleeping body like a fire alarm and sent so much adrenaline pumping through me that I was actually shaking when I got to Hannah's room. It was an unnecessary rush: Hannah was out again within 5 minutes.  I, however, was up until at least 4:30 and then I tossed and turned and woke up a few more times before she sounded that crazy alarm of hers again at 6:30 a.m. I was none too happy about dragging myself out of bed and was a completely unfunctioning cranky pants for most of the morning.

I snapped out of it when we got there though; how could I not??  These first three shots are in the little mini corn maze set up for tiny munchkins (larger munchkins go in the real maze with much taller walls).  Doesn't she look like such a big girl????!




Wheeee!!! She loved the slide.

The view from the foot of the slide.
I wish Hannah were cuter in this picture...It's so rare that I get on that side of the camera.
Mama's turn to take Hannah down the slide!

Hay ride! I love Hannah in this shot--look at her folded arms!

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Hannah and Addison

Hannah and I braved some chilly and wet weather to play with our friends Erin, Brody, and Addison at the playground today.  Addison was born in December of '09 so she's not much younger than Hannah. I think the two of them are going to play together super cutely in the next couple of months! In the meantime, Hannah had fun following Brody around the playground and giggling at all his crazy almost-3-year-old antics.

On the way to the car, Brody offered his seat in the sit-and-ride stroller to Hannah (so chivalrous!).  She happily climbed right up behind Addison and started girl talking and giving her friend the occasional pat on the head (as seen below).